I have been searching for a word that defines what I do when I work with coaching clients. They are mostly women who are looking to change their life. They are not always after money, although having more money can be a part of their desires. They are people looking to experience prosperity. The trouble with the word prosperity and abundance is that they automatically make people think about money and that isn?t my goal. For me, prosperity is about being healthy, happy AND wealthy. Being one without the others is not being prosperous.
So, leaving behind the words prosperity and abundance I realized that what I do is help them seek and experience FULFILMENT. I support them in bringing out and defining what will make them happy in their life and then I support them in achieving their goal. For some clients just the act of supporting them in defining what they want is enough and they then go on to set goals and work towards them alone.
Manifesting Fulfilment is paramount to a happy life in my opinion. In the past when I have helped unhappy people at work become more productive all I did was re-connect them to their passion. When we have something in our life that makes us happy we have achieved one area of fulfilment and it makes the rest of our life easier to work through. Whether you love to sing, or paint, travel or just find a quiet spot and do nothing ? having a goal that lets you experience happiness will lead to fulfilment.
And what is the ONE thing you need to manifest fulfilment ? self-confidence of course! Because without self-confidence and belief in yourself the setting goals and going for it part will not happen.
Another important part is to be able to define what being fulfilled means to you. It will mean something different to us all and knowing your own definition based on what you want is important.
If being fulfilled to you means earning 50,000 a year, being happily married and traveling the world at least 4 times a year, and you manage to manifest that in your life then you are successful.
To the person who earns 450,000 a year, is happily married and travels the world 8 times a year what you have may seem small to them but that is NOT important. It is only important what YOU WANT TO EXPERIENCE and what will make fulfilment possible in your life.
When you have great relationships, a regular flow of money to do everything you want to do and you are healthy then you are successful and your life can become a fulfilled one. It is fulfilled because you have DEFINED what fulfilment is to you.
So, as you define your life it is also important you work on looking at where you need to raise your self-confidence. Sometimes manifesting fulfilment is enough to help raise your confidence. As you work on your goals and achieve them that helps you feel more confident about your ability to make things happen. Your self-confidence can naturally grow and develop as a result. However, sometimes, particularly if you find you sabotage your life by not doing what needs to be done ? you may need some extra help.
I have written a free eBook on my thoughts as it relates to manifesting fulfillment in your life that will be available in about a week so watch out for that. I will also put together an audio for a small fee that you can listen to over and over again ? the audio will contain an affirmation for you to repeat so your focus is on connecting to your Divine Infinite Source.
In the meantime if you want to learn how to write and use affirmations successfully you can read a copy of my ebook on Using The Power of Affirmations
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About Diane Corriette
I write on this self development blog about building self confidence, and living a life of full self expression where you are free to be you. Being able to be confident is not so much about how you think but what you feel. To successfully build self confidence you must use your thoughts to create an image of who you want to be, and your emotions to help you feel this amazing new you and then visualise & focus on it until it becomes your reality.
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