An email from a troubled young man asked, ?Is Law of Attraction not working for me because I?m gay?? He went on to say that his life was ?doomed no matter what? because of the ?sinful? nature of his sexuality. He even mentioned that few of his gay and lesbian associates have successful relationships. My answer to him was that the law of attraction works the same for everyone and that he is only doomed for as long as his thoughts are dooming him.
This young man was, unintentionally of course, resisting the joyful life that is his birthright. He was creating an awful existence for himself. Why? Because he didn?t know any better. Whole groups of people, not just homosexuals, respond to the negative messages of parents, teachers, religious leaders, and society by internalizing what they have been taught. In other words, the things that they?ve been told become their dominant thoughts (or beliefs). And the Law of Attraction will always send thoughts and circumstances that are a vibrational match to your beliefs.
At a workshop in 1999, Abraham Hicks said ?there is nothing that you can do that is worse for yourself, than to do something that you believe is inappropriate. And so, get clear and happy about whichever choice you make because it is your contradiction that causes the majority of the contradiction in vibration.? This statement couldn?t be more perfect.
If you spend decades listening as people that you love or respect tell you that you are bad, evil, wrong, and on a path to hell, you may begin to feel that you are bad, evil, wrong, and on a path to hell. And when you begin to believe such things, you?ll experience quite a hellish existence on this Earth. Harboring negative beliefs about yourself is damaging to you and to anyone who gets involved in a relationship with you.
With this understanding, it is clear why the letter-writer notices so many unhappy gay and lesbian relationships. People who believe that their sexuality is ?sinful? and their relationships are wrong will have a very hard time creating a stable, joyful bond with their partner. The law of attraction works in such a way that you experience exactly what you allow yourself to believe.
I?d like to offer a few words of advice to gays, lesbians, and anyone else who is struggling with living outside of the expectations of others.
In the words of Joseph Campbell, ?follow your bliss.? Discover yourself, love yourself, forgive yourself, and free yourself. The result will be a wonderful life transformation that defies all understanding.
Copyright ? 2009 Attraction Saga
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Nea Joy is the founder and author of the Attraction Saga Law of Attraction-based website. She specializes in teaching the art of joyful living through spiritual growth and deliberate use of the Universal law of attraction.
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